Beyond The Near

Sex, Power and Judaism

May 20th, 2005 by Azadi

So for those who don’t have the time or whom I don’t want to read my thesis in it’s entirety, the crux of the whole argument is basically that the biblical prohibition against homosexuality outlined in Leviticus was essentially a prohibition against subjecting an equal to a humiliating position, namely, the position of a woman.

I draw on gender theorists and studies of power and sexuality in middle eastern culture to show that sexual relations were seen in the society which authored the Torah as inextricably tied to power, that dominance and humiliation were seen as inherent in the act.

Further, women being by definition the penetrated partner in licit sexual relations were therefore, also by definition, cast in the unfortunate but necessary position of a humiliated and therefore lower class. There is even a midrash which implies that this submissive position of women was an accident of the creation process and one that we pray one day to be rectified.

Combining this with Judith Butler’s theory that gender is not essential but performative, that is, that gender is not only expressed but comes into being when the defining characteristics of that gender are taken on, a whole mess is created which Judaism has simply been unable to deal with throughout most of its history except through the social and religious subjugation of women and the outright prohibition of male homosexuality. This also explains the prohibitions against displays of gender category confusion, dressing in the apparel of the “opposite” gender and also the lack of any biblical mention of female homosexuality.

What it all comes down to in the end is that if the Conservative movement can call itself egalitarian with regards to gender, can ordain women as rabbis, can count momen in a minyan, can recognize the legitemacy of women as witnesses, then there is no excuse for not acknowledging the equality of non-heterosexual individuals and the validity of same-gender relationships as they are all tied up in the same archaic and obsolete notions of…

Well, see, it gets complicated here. I didn’t go into this in my paper, but power and sexuality are not unconnected. Anyone with any connection to anything kinky or BDSM related will give you plenty of an earful about that. But it’s not inherent, it’s chosen. Now the next question to ask I suppose is whether or not BDSM must therefore be construed as biblically prohibited if my whole argument is built on the notion that the prohibition is in fact against using sex as an expression of power over an equal. I think it must be and I’m not sure how I feel about that.

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2 Responses

  1. David Says:

    The verse in Lev 18 bans men from having sex with other men as they would with a woman. And how do men typically have sex with women? Vaginal intercourse. Since men don’t have vaginas the verse bans an impossible act and thus is null and void. Your point about humiliating an equal is one possible interpretation (albeit a halakhicly useful one: just as contemporary non-orthodox men feel no humiliation when a woman leads prayer we can say there is no humiliation in any consensual sex act irrespective of the genders of the participants; indeed chazal already ruled that any consensual sex act within marriage is permitted, so it’s not that much of a stretch to extend the principal that consent is what matters to other non-incestuous couplings–indeed, including conseual BDSM). Another interpretation is that the verse bans cult sex with a temple priest or same sex temple prostitute. My take is that the concept of normality (and by extension normative values) is inherently oppressive.

  2. David Says:

    The verse in Lev 18 bans men from having sex with other men as they would with a woman. And how do men typically have sex with women? Vaginal intercourse. Since men don’t have vaginas the verse bans an impossible act and thus is null and void. Your point about humiliating an equal is one possible interpretation (albeit a halakhicly useful one: just as contemporary non-orthodox men feel no humiliation when a woman leads prayer we can say there is no humiliation in any consensual sex act irrespective of the genders of the participants; indeed chazal already ruled that any consensual sex act within marriage is permitted, so it’s not that much of a stretch to extend the principal that consent is what matters to other non-incestuous couplings–indeed, including conseual BDSM). Another interpretation is that the verse bans cult sex with a temple priest or same sex temple prostitute. My take is that the concept of normality (and by extension normative values) is inherently oppressive.

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